• mental health

    From apam@21:3/197 to mary4 on Tue Dec 24 19:59:54 2024
    is it ok to talk about this?

    i think so. i dont see why not. as long as its respectful.


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  • From apam@21:3/197 to mary4 on Wed Dec 25 09:18:16 2024
    i think so. i dont see why not. as long as its respectful.
    of course it would be respectful <3

    Yep, I am sure you would. I was saying it more generally, sometimes
    people (especially those who haven't experienced it), can be a bit nasty
    about it.

    i dont want to sh or s or si because i am in a pact with my lover...

    Great, some people say there are good ways and bad ways to manage, but I
    say what ever way keeps you alive and through it is the good way.

    thank you for listening to me <3

    :)

    anyone is welcomed to share experiences of stories if they are
    comfortable doing it

    I've been on anti-depressants and anti-psychotics for most of my life.
    Starting from when I was in high school. I moved to perth when I left highschool, by myself. Made some great friends and fell in love with a
    girl. She was a really beautiful person, so caring and always put others
    before herself, so cute and funny. I adored her. She died - suicide. I
    was broken, and drank for a number of years 6 - 7 to deal with it. Most
    people would frown on drinking, but it got me through. My medication got increased too around that time, and actually just got reduced a bit again
    a month or two ago, and things are going good. Although it happened 20
    years ago and I've since got married and have a son now (plus two
    daughters who didn't make it) and although I am happy, I still to
    sometimes wonder what life might have been like.

    So thats my story, I say time can heal all wounds, but it doesn't erase
    them. There's always scars.

    So yeah, keep your pact, and do what you can to keep going - life always
    has new things to throw at you and they aren't always bad :)

    Andrew

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  • From apam@21:3/197 to poindexter FORT on Wed Dec 25 09:24:34 2024
    It makes me want to go back to school and become a therapist. There's
    a growing need for them, finding a good one who's taking new patients
    is getting difficult, and I'd love to set my own hours. :)

    I think it would be one hell of a tough job though, especially if you're
    an empathetic kind of person.

    Andrew

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